{"id":30718,"date":"2018-10-25T07:47:17","date_gmt":"2018-10-25T04:47:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serialreaders.com\/blog\/?p=30718"},"modified":"2019-01-20T22:24:33","modified_gmt":"2019-01-20T20:24:33","slug":"cum-este-privelistea-asupra-vietii-tale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/serialreaders.com\/blog\/cum-este-privelistea-asupra-vietii-tale\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum este priveli\u0219tea asupra vie\u021bii tale? Cum va fi la 80 de ani?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perspectiva omului ajuns la 85 de ani care scrie cu luciditate, \u00een\u021belepciune \u0219i un dram de regret pentru a\u0219tept\u0103rile pe care NU le mai are de la via\u021b\u0103 este foarte interesant\u0103 pentru cei care nu au ajuns la v\u00e2rsta b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bii. Irvin D. Yalom scrie franc, fresh, p\u0103trunz\u0103tor, inspira\u021bional. De c\u00e2nd i-am auzit \u0219i vocea \u00een documentarul despre via\u021ba lui \u2013 \u201dYalom\u2019s Cure\u201d (video aici<\/a>) mi-l \u00eenchipui povestind fiecare r\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n

Cartea sa, \u201dC\u0103l\u0103toria c\u0103tre sine. Memoriile unui psihiatru<\/a>\u201d (ap\u0103rut\u0103 la editura Vellant), este una din biografiile care ar trebui citite. C\u00e2t de mult mi-a pl\u0103cut? Vede\u021bi c\u00e2t de mult am subliniat din carte\u2026<\/p>\n

\"C\u0103l\u0103toria<\/a><\/p>\n

Profesor de psihiatrie la Standford \u0219i cel mai celebru terapeut existen\u021bialist, Irvin D. Yalom te ajut\u0103 parc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi g\u0103se\u0219ti un sens, s\u0103 rumegi mereu la cele spuse pentru c\u0103 el pune problemele din unghiuri diferite.<\/p>\n

Psihologia ca domeniu s-a n\u0103scut din filozofie. El a iubit deopotriv\u0103 literatura, filozofia \u0219i psihologia. \u201dDincolo de dragostea pentru literatur\u0103, medicina nu a fost singura mea op\u021biune, deoarece am fost fascinat din totdeauna \u0219i de \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103, \u00een special de biologie, embriologie \u0219i biochimie<\/em>\u201d. De\u0219i am citit anul acesta \u201dPl\u00e2nsul lui Nietzche<\/strong><\/a>\u201d, nu am asociat numele autorului p\u00e2n\u0103 nu am citit memoriile. \u00cemi pl\u0103cuse cartea dar nu am dat mare importan\u021b\u0103 autorului. \u00cenc\u0103 un motiv s\u0103 iubesc biografiile\/memoriile\/jurnalele, pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 fac s\u0103 asociez \u0219i re\u021bin mai u\u0219or lucruri din via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n

Iubesc rela\u021bia lui Yalom cu so\u021bia sa, mare iubitoare de limba \u0219i cultura francez\u0103. Firi diferite, \u0219i-au fost sprijin atunci c\u00e2nd au avut mai mare nevoie de el. Am scris la sf\u00e2r\u0219it un portret frumos f\u0103cut de autor despre rela\u021bia lor.<\/p>\n

Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 recomand\u0103ri de c\u0103r\u021bi citite, Yalom vorbe\u0219te \u0219i despre filmul fran\u021buzesc \u201dAmour\u201d (2012), care merit\u0103 v\u0103zut \u00eenainte de 85 de ani. I-am urmat sfatul \u0219i l-am v\u0103zut, dar acum v\u0103 recomand eu ceva: s\u0103-l viziona\u021bi dup\u0103 60 de ani dac\u0103 nu vre\u021bi s\u0103 ur\u00e2\u021bi b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bea cu totul\u2026<\/p>\n

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11 lucruri despre via\u021ba lui actual\u0103 \u0219i disciplina de a scrie<\/strong>:<\/h3>\n

\u201dDe c\u00e2nd m-am retras, devreme, de la Standford, \u00een 1994, programul meu a r\u0103mas la fel: diminea\u021ba scriu trei sau patru ore, \u0219ase sau \u0219apte zile pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, iar \u00een cinci zile pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 primesc pacien\u021bi dup\u0103-amiaza. Locuiesc \u00een Palo Alto de cincizeci de ani, iar cabinetul meu se afl\u0103 la cincizeci de metri de cas\u0103<\/em>\u201d. Spune c\u0103 este foarte fericit c\u00e2nd \u0219tie c\u0103-l a\u0219teapt\u0103 patru ore de scris ne\u00eentrerupte. Acesta este \u00eentr-adev\u0103r un privilegiu pentru cineva care vrea s\u0103 se concentreze pe scris. Pu\u021bini \u00een\u021beleg ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 scrii \u00een lini\u0219te \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 perturb\u0103ri\u2026<\/p>\n

\u201dAm avut \u00eentotdeauna, \u00een mintea mea, un teanc de c\u0103r\u021bi a\u0219tept\u00e2nd s\u0103 fie scrise, dar acum nu mai am<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dPriveli\u0219tea pe care o ai la 80 de ani asupra vie\u021bii e mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t m-am a\u0219teptat. \u00cen deceniile \u0219ase, opt \u0219i nou\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103 am g\u0103sit mai mult\u0103 fericire \u0219i lini\u0219te sufleteasc\u0103 dec\u00e2t credeam c\u0103 e cu putin\u021b\u0103<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dAbia acum, la optzeci \u0219i cinci de ani, \u00een\u021beleg cu adev\u0103rat anxietatea. Tr\u0103iesc momente<\/strong> pasagere de confuzie, c\u00e2nd uit unde m\u0103 aflu sau ce fac<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dV\u00e2rsta, seriozitatea \u0219i reputa\u021bia \u00eemi sporesc eficien\u021ba ca terapeut. Cei mai mul\u021bi pacien\u021bi din ultimii dou\u0103zeci \u0219i cinci de ani m-au contactat dup\u0103 ce mi-au citit c\u0103r\u021bile, intr\u00e2nd pe u\u0219a cabinetului cu mult\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een capacit\u0103\u021bile mele terapeutice<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dToate semnele \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nirii \u2013 cartilajul distrus de la genunchi, vederea slab\u0103, durerile de spate, senilizarea pl\u0103cilor, p\u0103rul \u0219i barba tot mai albe, visele despre moarte \u2013 toate \u00eemi amintesc c\u0103 m\u0103 apropii de sf\u00e2r\u0219itul vie\u021bii<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dCopiii no\u0219tri, la fel ca cei mai mul\u021bi copii n\u0103scu\u021bi \u00een California, nu au dorit s\u0103 locuiasc\u0103 \u00een alt\u0103 parte, a\u0219a \u00eenc\u00e2t ne bucur\u0103m s\u0103-i avem pe to\u021bi aproape. Ne adun\u0103m frecvent cu to\u021bii \u0219i ne petrecem aproape toate vacan\u021bele de var\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103, cel mai frcvent \u00een Hanalei, pe insula Kauai. Via\u021ba noastr\u0103 de familie include foarte multe jocuri<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dRegret c\u0103 nu am petrecut mai mult timp cu fiecare copil \u00een parte\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dTo\u021bi cei patru copii ai no\u0219tri au trecut prin experien\u021ba divor\u021bului. Trei dintre ei s-au rec\u0103s\u0103torit \u0219i sunt foarte ferici\u021bi. Ne-am \u00eentrebat la nesf\u00e2r\u0219it, dup\u0103 fiecare divor\u021b, unde am gre\u0219it. Sunt p\u0103rin\u021bii responsabili pentru e\u0219ecul mariajelor copiilor lor? Am \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219it triste\u021bea copiilor no\u0219tri \u0219i am r\u0103mas intim implica\u021bi p\u00e2n\u0103 ast\u0103zi \u00een via\u021ba tuturor copiilor \u0219i nepo\u021bilor no\u0219tri (\u0219ase)<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dUneori m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 scrisul este efortul meu de a risipi sentimentul trecerii timpului \u0219i ideea mor\u021bii inevitabile. Toate lecturile \u0219i experien\u021bele mele de via\u021b\u0103 m-au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u00e2t de important este s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti \u00een a\u0219a fel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu mori \u00eenc\u0103rcat de regrete<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dPentru a pre\u00eent\u00e2mpina pensioanarea, folosesc din greu un program pe computer: dictez o pagin\u0103 sau dou\u0103 dup\u0103 fiecare \u0219edin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i m\u0103 asigur c\u0103 recitesc notele \u00eenainte de urm\u0103toarea \u0219edin\u021b\u0103. Pierderea memoriei are totu\u0219i \u0219i o parte bun\u0103: uit\u00e2nd subiectul multor c\u0103r\u021bi, \u00eemi ofer pl\u0103cerea de a le reciti<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

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7 momente despre familia \u0219i copil\u0103ria sa<\/strong>:<\/h3>\n

\u201d\u00cen copil\u0103rie nu-mi pl\u0103ceau via\u021ba mea, cartierul, \u0219coala \u0219i amicii<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dAmintirile copil\u0103riei timpurii au fost, pentru mine, \u00eentotdeauna fragmentare, probabil, am crezut eu, din cauza nefericirii mele timpurii<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

Despre tat\u0103l s\u0103u \u2013 Via\u021ba mea mai u\u0219oar\u0103 ca a altora \u0219i educa\u021bia mea au fost posibile datorit\u0103 muncii \u0219i perspicacit\u0103\u021bii sale antreprenoriale (\u0219i a mamei).<\/p>\n

\u201dP\u0103rin\u021bii mei nu erau \u00eenc\u00e2nta\u021bi s\u0103 arunce cu bani pe frivolit\u0103\u021bi, dar c\u00e2nd venea vorba despre orice ar fi avut o c\u00e2t de mic\u0103 leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu educa\u021bia mea \u2013 creioane, h\u00e2rtie, rigle de calcul \u0219i c\u0103r\u021bi, mai cu seam\u0103 c\u0103r\u021bi \u2013 d\u0103deau cu am\u00e2ndou\u0103 m\u00e2inile<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dBiblioteca m\u0103 punea \u00een contact cu lumea mai mare la care t\u00e2njeam, o lume a istoriei, culturii \u0219i ideilor, alin\u00e2nd totodat\u0103 anxietatea p\u0103rin\u021bilor mei. Ast\u0103zi \u0219tiu c\u0103 aceste lecturi la \u00eent\u00e2mplare nu mi-au d\u0103unat cu nimic, cum nu mi-a d\u0103unat nici s\u0103 fiu singurul pu\u0219ti de zece sau unsprezece ani din lume care \u0219tia at\u00e2t de multe despre Hetty Green sau Sam Patch<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dP\u0103rin\u021bii mei erau etnici evrei: vorbitori de idi\u0219, adep\u021bi meticulo\u0219i ai legilor culinare cu\u0219er, cu patru seturi diferite de tac\u00e2muri \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie (pentru lactate \u0219i carne \u00een timpul anului, \u0219i tac\u00e2muri speciale pentru Pa\u0219te)<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dAm tr\u0103it \u00eentr-o epoc\u0103 \u00een care evreii nu se b\u0103teau niciodat\u0103: ei doar o \u00eencasau. Singura strategie \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat\u0103 de la tat\u0103l meu a fost fuga<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

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20 de reflexii din gura unui psihiatru<\/strong>:<\/h3>\n

\u201dLe-am solicitat mereu pacien\u021bilor s\u0103-\u0219i investigheze regretele \u0219i s\u0103 aspire la o via\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2t mai lipsit\u0103 de ele\u201d.<\/p>\n

Propriul sine este principalul instrument al terapeutului.<\/p>\n

Exist\u0103 o frecven\u021b\u0103 cu care pacien\u021bii \u00ee\u0219i recupereaz\u0103 amintirile anumitor stadii de via\u021b\u0103 \u00een perioadele \u00een care copiii lor traverseaz\u0103 acelea\u0219i stadii<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Dialog cu el \u00eensu\u0219i: Cum arat\u0103 echilibrul t\u0103u? 85% studiu \u0219i 15% griji.<\/p>\n

\u201dNu vreau nimic. Nu m\u0103 tem de nimic. Sunt liber<\/em>\u201d \u2013 cuvintele de pe piatra funerar\u0103 a lui Nikos Kazantzakis<\/p>\n

\u201dPrezen\u021ba, \u00eentreb\u0103rile \u0219i aten\u021bia terapeutului pot fi stimulative \u00een feluri pe care nici nu ni le imagin\u0103m<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dMajoritatea pacien\u021bilor ajung \u00eentr-o stare de disperare din cauza incapacit\u0103\u021bii de a stabili \u0219i de a men\u021bine rela\u021bii interpersonale evolutive<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

Se spune c\u0103 po\u021bi judeca caracterul unui om \u00een func\u021bie de caracterul prietenilor s\u0103i. Dac\u0103 e a\u0219a\u2026 probabil c\u0103 sunt un om foarte bun\u2026 – a spus un medic \u0219ef de-al s\u0103u.<\/p>\n

\u201dDragostea fiicei tale este cel mai important lucru din lume pentru tine. S\u0103 nu mori; te rog s\u0103 nu mori p\u00e2n\u0103 nu-i spui asta<\/em>\u201d \u2013 sfaturi c\u0103tre una din clientele sale.<\/p>\n

\u201dLibertatea este preocuparea suprem\u0103 pentru mul\u021bi g\u00e2nditori existen\u021biali\u0219ti. \u00cen viziunea mea, libertatea se refer\u0103 la ideea c\u0103 noi trebuie s\u0103 fim autorii vie\u021bilor, deciziilor \u0219i ac\u021biunilor noastre, din moment ce tr\u0103im \u00eentr-un univers din care lipse\u0219te un scenariu inerent<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dAmintirile \u0219i dorin\u021bele \u00eendreptate spre viitor nu fac dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ne tulbure<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dTerapeutul poate dezvolta sentimente de atrac\u021bie extrem de puternice fa\u021b\u0103 de un pacient, dar poate la fel de bine s\u0103 experimenteze reac\u021bii negative la fel de puternice, izvor\u00e2te din surse incon\u0219tiente, poate din \u00eent\u00e2lnirile cu personaje negative din trecutul s\u0103u<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dCel care are un De Ce \u00een via\u021b\u0103 nu se va \u00eempiedica \u00een niciun Cum<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

Mantra mea: fic\u021biunea este o istorie care s-ar fi putut \u00eent\u00e2mpla. <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201d\u0218tiu c\u0103 mul\u021bi scriitori pornesc de la o schi\u021b\u0103 detaliat\u0103, dar eu prefer s\u0103 las munca \u00een seama incon\u0219tientului meu \u0219i s\u0103 le permit personajelor \u0219i \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103rilor s\u0103 evolueze organic pe scena min\u021bii mele, \u00een timp ce eu doar \u0219lefuiesc rezultatul<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dTeroarea de moarte e cu at\u00e2t mai mare cu c\u00e2t senza\u021bia unei vie\u021bi netr\u0103ite bine e mai puternic\u0103<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dAm ajuns s\u0103 cred c\u0103 rezultatele videoterapiei nu sunt cu mult diferite de cele ale terapiei \u00een cabinet<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201dTalkspace \u2013 cel mai mare program de terapie prin text online. \u00cen prezent, pare c\u0103 terapia prin text va juca un rol important \u00een viitorul domeniului nostru. C\u00e2nd se afl\u0103 pe m\u00e2ini bune, terapia prin text poate permite o rela\u021bie mai intim\u0103 dec\u00e2t formatul fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, \u00een care terapeu\u021bii se exprim\u0103 adesea rigid, folosind comportamentele mecanice sugerate de manuale\u201d.<\/p>\n

Unul dintre paradoxurile vie\u021bii de terapeut este c\u0103 nu suntem niciodat\u0103 singuri \u00een munca noastr\u0103, dar mul\u021bi dintre noi se simt foarte izola\u021bi<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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Despre rela\u021bia cu so\u021bia sa Marylin: <\/strong><\/h3>\n

Incon\u0219tientul meu a priceput c\u0103 ea de\u021binea combina\u021bia unic\u0103 de calit\u0103\u021bi care m-ar fi putut civiliza \u0219i eleva<\/em>.<\/p>\n

\u201dSo\u021bia mea, \u00eentotdeauna primul cititor, a notat cu litere mari pe ultima pagin\u0103 a manuscrisului Minciunilor pe canapea: \u201dMAI AI \u0218I ALTCEVA S\u0102 SPUI AMERICII DESPRE FANTEZIILE TALE SEXUALE?<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201dO rela\u021bie este o crea\u021bie. Am depus eforturi serioase, am\u00e2ndoi, de-a lungul acestor zeci de ani, s\u0103 cre\u0103m mariajul la care am ajuns azi. Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103-i accept micile cusururi<\/strong> \u2013 indiferen\u021ba fa\u021b\u0103 de g\u0103tit, fa\u021b\u0103 de evenimente sportive, fa\u021b\u0103 de biciclet\u0103, science-fiction, \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 \u00een general. Aceste nemul\u021bumiri sunt \u0219i ele risipite de mult. Am avut norocul de a tr\u0103i cu o enciclopedie ambulant\u0103 a culturii vestice, care mi-a r\u0103spuns pe loc aproape tuturor curiozit\u0103\u021bilor mele istorice sau literare.<\/p>\n

Dar \u0219i Marilyn a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103-mi accepte defectele \u2013 dezordinea mea casnic\u0103 intratabil\u0103, refuzul de a purta cravat\u0103, pasiunea mea adolescentin\u0103 pentru motociclete \u0219i decapotabile, ignoran\u021ba mimat\u0103 c\u00e2nd vine vorba despre ma\u0219ina de sp\u0103lat vase sau rufe. Am ajuns \u00eempreun\u0103 la o \u00een\u021belegere reciproc\u0103. Singurele noastre \u00eengrijor\u0103ri \u00een prezent sunt s\u0103n\u0103tatea celuilalt \u0219i \u00eentrebarea ce va face cel care moare ultimul. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Marilyn este un savant cu o minte curioas\u0103, atras\u0103 de tot ce \u021bine de arta \u0219i literatura european\u0103. Este, la fel ca mine, ve\u0219nic student\u0103, citind ne\u00eentrerupt. <\/strong>Suntem am\u00e2ndoi pasiona\u021bi de scris \u0219i citit, dar, interesele noastre nu se suprapun \u00eentodeauna.<\/p>\n

Ea este deschiderea mea spre lumea artei \u0219i istoriei.<\/strong> De\u0219i sunt complet afon ea continu\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103-mi trezeasc\u0103 sensibilitatea muzical\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 c\u00e2nd sunt singur \u00een ma\u0219in\u0103 tot meciuri sau muzic\u0103 country ascult.<\/p>\n

Marilyn iube\u0219te vinurile bune \u0219i pentru un num\u0103r de ani m-am pref\u0103cut \u0219i eu c\u0103 a\u0219 avea gust.<\/strong> Doar recent am l\u0103sat deoparte toate preten\u021biile \u0219i am m\u0103rturisit deschis c\u0103 detest gustul de alcool \u00een orice form\u0103.<\/p>\n

Ne plac foarte mult filmele, dar selec\u021bia ne d\u0103 de multe ori b\u0103t\u0103i de cap<\/strong>: ea voteaz\u0103 \u00eempotriva oric\u0103rei form\u0103 de violen\u021b\u0103 sau de via\u021b\u0103 mizerabil\u0103. C\u00e2nd e plecat\u0103 \u00eemi fac de cap cu c\u00e2te un film cu gangsteri. C\u00e2nd ea e acas\u0103, televizorul r\u0103m\u00e2ne blocat pe canalul fran\u021buzesc. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Am fost, \u00eentotdeauna, primul cititor al c\u0103r\u021bilor celuilalt. Ea spune c\u0103 fascina\u021bia mea pentru s\u00e2nii femeilor a inspirat-o s\u0103 scrie \u201dA history of the breast\u201d, un studiu cultural despre percep\u021bia \u0219i reprezentarea corpului feminin \u00een istorie\u201d.<\/p>\n

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