{"id":29885,"date":"2018-06-04T10:42:00","date_gmt":"2018-06-04T07:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serialreaders.com\/blog\/?p=29885"},"modified":"2018-06-04T10:53:09","modified_gmt":"2018-06-04T07:53:09","slug":"ce-mi-ai-facut-tu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/serialreaders.com\/blog\/ce-mi-ai-facut-tu\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce mi-ai f\u0103cut, Tu?"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u0103 tot g\u00e2ndesc la ce a \u00eensemnat aceast\u0103 carte pentru mine \u0219i pur \u0219i simplu nu-mi g\u0103sesc cuvintele at\u00e2t de u\u0219or. Mi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 rar s\u0103 \u201camu\u021besc\u201d \u00een fa\u021ba unei recenzii de scris, fiindc\u0103 \u00een general am o list\u0103 de criterii clare: bifat, bifat, bifat, deci carte bun\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dar cu \u201cTu<\/em>\u201d nu pot face asta (sau ar trebui s\u0103 zic \u201ccu tine<\/em>\u201d?). \u201cTu<\/em><\/strong><\/a>\u201d e cartea care m-a \u201cbifat\u201d ea pe mine. \u201cTu<\/em>\u201d a inversat rolurile fire\u0219ti \u2013 cititor \u2013 partea activ\u0103, carte \u2013 partea pasiv\u0103. M\u0103 simt invadat\u0103 de ea. \u0218i nu \u00eentr-un sens r\u0103u dar, ca s\u0103 fiu la ora sincerit\u0103\u021bii, nici \u00eentr-un sens prea curat.<\/p>\n

Una din \u00eentreb\u0103rile cu care am r\u0103mas \u00een urma lecturii este: sunt oare \u0219i eu o (mic\u0103) psihopat\u0103? Nu c\u0103 am rezonat, dar aproape am fuzionat cu personajul principal, care este un psihopat veritabil. C\u00e2t timp am citit, eu \u0219i el am devenit aproape una \u0219i aceea\u0219i persoan\u0103. Iar c\u00e2nd nu eram una \u0219i aceea\u0219i entitate, el se afla \u2013 la nivel metaforic – prin ni\u0219te locuri despre care nu pot vorbi.<\/p>\n

Acest personaj pe nume Joe Goldberg, librar de profesie, m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 redescop\u0103r natura uman\u0103. Prin ochii \u0219i prin g\u00e2ndurile lui, am cunoscut o sumedenie de comportamente intime ale celuilalt personaj, feminin, pe care le cuno\u0219team doar la propria persoan\u0103. Fiindc\u0103 nimeni nu vorbe\u0219te despre aceste lucruri, dar Joe vorbe\u0219te. \u0218i o face necenzurat, dur, \u00een acela\u0219i timp logic \u0219i calculat, la fel ca fiecare mi\u0219care a sa, de altfel. \u0218i de fiecare dat\u0103 vorbe\u0219te \u00een cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 de cauz\u0103.<\/p>\n

\"Tu,<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00cen alt\u0103 ordine de idei, avem o scriere excelent\u0103 \u0219i o poveste incredibil de captivant\u0103, a unui individ bolnav care urm\u0103re\u0219te o fat\u0103 prin intermediul unui telefon furat de la ea. \u00cei urm\u0103re\u0219te conversa\u021biile pe mail cu prietenii, locurile \u00een care merge, lucrurile pe care le vrea. Sufer\u0103 de lips\u0103 de empatie \u2013 caracteristica definitorie a psihopa\u021bilor \u2013 \u0219i de un ata\u0219ament nefiresc, care vor avea cele mai groaznice consecin\u021be, dar nu neap\u0103rat \u00eenso\u021bite de regrete. Cartea are o ac\u021biune din care sim\u021bi nevoia s\u0103 gu\u0219ti, precum din desertul preferat, atunci c\u00e2nd pofte\u0219ti intens la ceva cu zah\u0103r. \u00cen momentul acela, ca \u0219i \u00een momentele acestei lecturi, o parte a min\u021bii se \u201cblocheaz\u0103\u201d – mie mi s-a blocat. \u0218i am sim\u021bit cu at\u00e2t mai intens activat\u0103 cealalt\u0103 parte, care coordoneaz\u0103 poftele, care este simpl\u0103, ira\u021bional\u0103, un pic mai jos \u00een piramida evolu\u021biei. Trebuie s\u0103 felicit autoarea fiindc\u0103 mi-a activat asemenea instincte, tocmai \u00een timpul unei activit\u0103\u021bi pur intelectuale precum cititul.<\/p>\n

\u00cen final, ca recomandare, am pentru cartea \u201cTu<\/em><\/strong>\u201d, scris\u0103 de Caroline Kepnes,<\/strong> tot dou\u0103 sunete, la fel de simple: DA! Pu\u021bine \u201cDa\u201d-uri sunt mai Da de at\u00e2t. Nu doar ca o nou\u0103 carte de pus pe list\u0103, dar ca o provocare de redescoperire a sinelui, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een cele mai intime straturi. Fiindc\u0103 aparent, \u0219i realitatea c\u0103r\u021bilor e la fel de dur\u0103 ca a noastr\u0103: nu ajungi s\u0103 te redescoperi prin c\u0103r\u021bi de autori care promit s\u0103-\u021bi ofere asta, ca Mircea Eliade. Ci prin c\u0103r\u021bi despre care nici nu b\u0103nuiai c\u0103 o vor face. Cum ar fi cele scrise din perspectiva unui psihopat care-\u021bi invadeaz\u0103 intimitatea \u0219i realizezi c\u00e2t de mult \u00ee\u021bi place de fapt.<\/p>\n

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